I sometimes i think about life and the situations ive encounter and the circumstances ive faced. Some great, some good others not so favorable to my own emotions. One of things i do know for certain; every life is a product of your ancestors choices, your parents choices and your choices. We all have free will of how to operate under whatever environment we dwell in; past, present or future. We can not choose the outcome from our choices, we are not exempt from the consequence or the reward. We are merely acting for the universe to react as a response to our actions. When you make peace with this and place maturity in your emotional connection to lifes path you will understand that all you have to do is accept or deny...denial is choosing another option. Sometimes you have to create your own choice, life will not always sit options to choose from if your lap that you will want to take from or can choose from. You can always say NO!! I need other options and you have the power to create. The power to reevaluate and recreate. You are powerful. You are a spirit that has free will. Maybe your life isnt the life you envisioned you can change that as long as you have breath in your body. You can always change the narrative. You are the author of your own story. You have to understand this for it to make sense.